60 Self Love Quotes: From Insecurity to Inner Confidence

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Transform your self-doubt into unshakeable confidence and a source of inner power with this list of self love quotes!

On the journey toward professional and personal fulfillment, the most crucial relationship you’ll ever cultivate is the one with yourself. If you’ve ever felt the quiet grip of insecurity or the loud pull of self-doubt, you are not alone. The following collection of self love quotes – featuring inspirational words from thought leaders, coaches, and many more – is curated to help shift your mindset, find your own voice, and begin a lasting transformation from within.

(by Jonathan M. Pham)

Short Self Love Quotes

Sometimes, all you need is a concise yet powerful reminder of your worth. These quick, impactful sayings cut straight to the heart of self-acceptance and value.

  1. Be you, love you. All ways, always. – Alexandra Elle
  1. You change the world by being yourself. – Yoko Ono
  1. You are enough just as you are. – Meghan Markle
  1. To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. – Oscar Wilde
  1. Seek to be whole, not perfect. – Oprah Winfrey

seek to be whole not perfect

Aesthetic self love quotes

Inspirational Self Love Quotes

Feeling disconnected from your true self? These quotes should provide a gentle nudge for you to look inward, live authentically, and embrace your full potential.

  1. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes. – Carl Jung
  1. Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. – Steve Jobs
  1. It is never too late to be what you might have been. – George Eliot
  1. Do whatever brings you to life, then. Follow your own fascinations, obsessions, and compulsions. Trust them. Create whatever causes a revolution in your heart. – Elizabeth Gilbert
  1. Be patient with yourself. Self-growth is tender; it’s holy ground. – Stephen R. Covey

self-growth is tender

Self love motivational quotes

Positive Self Love Quotes

A positive mindset is a direct act of self-love and care. Use these quotes to inspire small, joyful habits that shift your perspective and brighten your every day.

  1. Smile in the mirror. Do that every morning and you’ll start to see a big difference in your life. – Yoko Ono
  1. Let your smile change the world, but don’t let the world change your smile. – Connor Franta
  1. Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy. – Thich Nhat Hanh
  1. Smile, smile, smile at your mind as often as possible. Your smiling will considerably reduce your mind’s tearing tension. – Sri Chinmoy
  1. The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. – Oprah Winfrey

self love affirmations

Self love affirmations

Self Worth & Authenticity Quotes

Your greatest gift is being unapologetically you. Let us reflect on the courage required to honor one’s inner voice and affirm one’s inherent self-worth.

  1. One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself. – Shannon L. Alder
  1. Be faithful to that which exists within yourself. – Andre Gide
  1. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. – Eleanor Roosevelt
  1. If you celebrate your differentness, the world will, too. It believes exactly what you tell it – through the words you use to describe yourself, the actions you take to care for yourself, and the choices you make to express yourself. Tell the world you are one-of-a-kind creation who came here to experience wonder and spread joy. Expect to be accommodated. – Victoria Moran
  1. The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself. – Michel de Montaigne

know how to belong to oneself

Self Esteem & Confidence Quotes

Believing in oneself is the first step toward achieving anything great. Most of the time, self-esteem is built by facing challenges without fearing imperfection.

  1. It’s lack of faith that makes people afraid of meeting challenges, and I believed in myself. – Muhammad Ali
  1. You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody. – Maya Angelou
  1. What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. – Ralph Waldo Emerson
  1. Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does. – William James
  1. Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong. – Peter T. McIntyre

confidence quotes

Self Acceptance quotes

True peace comes from accepting all parts of your story, flaws and all. In other words, we should stop striving for perfection and instead practice self-compassion.

  1. Accept yourself, love yourself, and keep moving forward. – Roy T. Bennett
  1. A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms. – Zen Shin
  1. Friendship with oneself is all important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world. – Eleanor Roosevelt
  1. Be kinder to yourself. And then let your kindness flood the world. – Pema Chödrön
  1. Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do. – Brené Brown

Read more: 48 Mental Health Quotes – Turning Struggle Into Strength

powerful quote to self

Powerful quote to self

Self Love Quotes for Healing & Growth

Mistakes and struggles are not failures, but stepping stones.

  1. Turn your wounds into wisdom. – Oprah Winfrey
  1. If flowers can teach themselves how to bloom after winter passes, so can you. – Noor Shirazie
  1. Strong is she who knows when she needs to lay her battles down to rest. – Amanda Lovelace
  1. A wineglass with a forever-missing piece doesn’t need to be thrown into the garbage. The rest of the glass is still whole. You can still drink from it – you just need to learn to be mindful of the parts that can hurt you. – Amanda Lovelace
  1. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. – Sharon Salzberg (sometimes attributed to the Buddha)

Read more: 85 Resilience Quotes for Work – A Dose of Daily Fortitude

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Self-compassion quotes

Take Care of Yourself Quotes

Setting boundaries and practicing self-care are essential acts of respect. They are necessary, not signs of selfishness.

  1. Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy. – Robert Tew
  1. Make happiness your priority and be gentle with yourself in the process. – Bronnie Ware
  1. Talk to yourself like someone you love. – Brené Brown
  1. Self-care is how you take your power back. – Lalah Delia
  1. Taking care of yourself doesn’t mean me first; it means me too. – L. R. Knost

Read more: 40 Self Care Quotes – Your Ultimate Professional Asset

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Attitude self love quotes

Happiness & Self Love Quotes

The journey to lasting happiness begins within. The greatest relationship you will ever have is the one you cultivate with yourself.

  1. To fall in love with yourself is the first secret to happiness. – Robert Morley
  1. Happiness comes from you. No one else can make you happy. You make you happy. – Beyoncé Knowles
  1. A flower blossoms for its own joy. We gain a moment of joy by looking at it. That is all that is to be said about our relations to flowers. Of course man may sell the flower, and so make it useful to him, but this has nothing to do with the flower. It is not part of its essence. – Oscar Wilde
  1. If you have the ability to love, love yourself first. – Charles Bukowski
  1. The most powerful relationship you will ever have is the relationship with yourself. – Steve Maraboli

Read more: 65 Happy Work Quotes – When Job Becomes Passion

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Self Love Quotes for Men & Women

Self-love is a universal principle that transcends gender.

  1. When you make peace with yourself, you make peace with the world. – Maha Ghosananda
  1. A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval. – Mark Twain

self love quotes for men

Self love quotes for men

  1. How you love yourself is how you teach others to love you. – Rupi Kaur
  1. Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. – Lucille Ball
  1. Believe in yourself and there will come a day when others will have no choice but to believe with you. – Cynthia Kersey

Read more: 58 Believe in Yourself Quotes for Motivation & Taking the Leap

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Self love quotes for women

Love Quotes: From Self to Others

The capacity to love others is directly tied to the way one treats oneself. This section explores the beautiful, undeniable connection between self-regard and genuine empathy for those around you.

  1. Love your neighbor as yourself. – Matthew 22:39
  1. Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting. – William Shakespeare, King Henry V
  1. If one cannot love oneself, one cannot love others. If one cannot believe in oneself, one cannot believe in others. – Ichiro Kishimi, ‘The Courage to Be Happy’
  1. It is only when you have mastered the art of loving yourself that you can truly love others. – Robin Sharma
  1. I celebrate myself, and sing myself. And what I assume you shall assume; for every atom belonging to me as good belongs to you. – Walt Whitman

Read more: Love Leadership – More Than an Abstract Philosophical Idea

best self love quotes

Best self love quotes

Funny Self Love Quotes

Who says self-love has to be serious? Laughter is a powerful form of self-acceptance, and the following lighthearted words show that embracing your unique quirks is the ultimate fun!

  1. To me, self-love isn’t vanity – it’s sanity. – Katrina Mayer
  1. Be yourself; everyone else is already taken. – Oscar Wilde
  1. I am so clever that sometimes I don’t understand a single word of what I am saying. – Oscar Wilde
  1. I’m learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me. – A.G.
  1. Anything’s possible if you’ve got enough nerve. – J. K. Rowling

anything is possible if you have got enough nerve

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