There is a famous maxim which states that those who stay flexible would not get bent out of shape. Resilience is not only about being tough; it is about being agile. In 5 Levels of Mastery, co-authored by me, World #1 Coaching Guru Marshall Goldsmith and my assistant Aaron Ngui, we touched upon the concept of conscious agility.
In brief, conscious agility is about staying mentally flexible by adapting and improving to overcome roadblocks along the way. If option A is a no-go, then quickly move on the option B, if that is also a no-go, switch to option C. It means you are clear on what you want to achieve but also agile enough to find different ways, means and methods to accomplish what you have set out to do to reach your destination.
Do your best not to get upset when things do not turn out the way you expect. Accept that plans can go off-course. A key to resilience is to be mindfully aware that you can take charge of continuously adjusting to changing conditions to get back on track, even if it means taking a detour or a different route towards reaching your end goal.
In difficult times, it can sometimes feel that the desired results are slow to come by. But a state of conscious agility would allow you to recognize that the fruit may sometimes take time to ripen for the harvest. This is true when it comes to change as you adapt and evolve to acquire more knowledge and relevant skills to enable a foundation for thriving. As your competency grows, your execution gets better, and success can come sooner.