{"id":10588,"date":"2025-04-01T21:16:52","date_gmt":"2025-04-01T13:16:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/?p=10588"},"modified":"2026-03-07T01:43:29","modified_gmt":"2026-03-06T17:43:29","slug":"mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/","title":{"rendered":"Mistakes Leaders Make When Giving Feedback\u2014and Better Ways to Communicate"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"yoast-breadcrumbs\"><span><span><a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/\">Home<\/a><\/span> \u00bb <span><a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/.\/leadership\/\">Leadership Blog<\/a><\/span> \u00bb <span class=\"breadcrumb_last\" aria-current=\"page\"><strong>Mistakes Leaders Make When Giving Feedback\u2014and Better Ways to Communicate<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/div>\r\n\r\n\r\n<div class=\"wp-block-spacer\" style=\"height: 30px;\" aria-hidden=\"true\">\u00a0<\/div>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Feedback conversations go sideways all the time, and when they do, people just stop caring about their work. We&#8217;ve watched it happen over and over. A manager tries to help someone improve, but the person walks away feeling terrible instead of motivated.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Most <a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/what-is-leadership\/\">leaders<\/a> genuinely want their people to succeed, but nobody taught them how to have these conversations properly. Bad feedback doesn&#8217;t just hurt someone&#8217;s feelings for a day.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">It breaks down trust, kills motivation, and makes people scared to take risks or try new things. The crazy part is that your team actually wants feedback from you. They want to know how they&#8217;re doing and where they can get better. They just don&#8217;t want to feel attacked when you give it to them.<\/p>\r\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_74 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" 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Undermine Feedback<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Mistake_1_Being_Vague_or_Non-Specific\" >Mistake 1: Being Vague or Non-Specific<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Mistake_2_Forcing_the_Time_and_Place\" >Mistake 2: Forcing the Time and Place<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Mistake_3_Jumping_Straight_Into_Criticism\" >Mistake 3: Jumping Straight Into Criticism<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Mistake_4_Ignoring_Two-Way_Dialogue\" >Mistake 4: Ignoring Two-Way Dialogue<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Mistake_5_Blurring_Boundaries_Afterward\" >Mistake 5: Blurring Boundaries Afterward<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Better_Ways_to_Communicate_Feedback\" >Better Ways to Communicate Feedback<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Make_Feedback_Specific_Using_SBI\" >Make Feedback Specific Using SBI<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Set_Up_Meetings_Collaboratively\" >Set Up Meetings Collaboratively<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Clarify_the_Purpose_Upfront\" >Clarify the Purpose Upfront<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Encourage_Two-Way_Feedback\" >Encourage Two-Way Feedback<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Keep_Boundaries_Clear\" >Keep Boundaries Clear<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Techniques_and_Conversation_Starters\" >Techniques and Conversation Starters<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Use_Feedforward\" >Use Feedforward<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Start_with_Check-In_Questions\" >Start with Check-In Questions<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#De-Escalate_and_Invite_Dialogue\" >De-Escalate and Invite Dialogue<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Follow-Up_and_Accountability\" >Follow-Up and Accountability<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Sample_Feedback_Conversation_Outline\" >Sample Feedback Conversation Outline<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback\/#Conclusion_Why_Doing_Feedback_Better_Builds_Trust_and_Performance\" >Conclusion: Why Doing Feedback Better Builds Trust and Performance<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Feedback_Matters\"><\/span>Why Feedback Matters<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Only 26% of workers say their boss&#8217;s feedback actually helps them do better work. But get this &#8211; 64% of them want more feedback than they&#8217;re getting right now. Something&#8217;s clearly broken in how we&#8217;re doing this.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Gallup did some research that blew our minds. People who get useful feedback every week are 80% more likely to actually care about their jobs. Every week, not once a year during some boring performance review.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Your people are dying to know how they&#8217;re doing. They want to grow and get better at their jobs. But when you give feedback that&#8217;s vague or feels like an attack, they just shut down completely. The problem isn&#8217;t that we need to <a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/giving-effective-feedback\/\">give feedback<\/a> &#8211; the problem is we&#8217;re doing it wrong.<\/p>\r\n<blockquote>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Read more: <a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/leader-vs-boss\/\">Leader vs Boss<\/a> &#8211; 11 Key Differences (Which One Are You?)<\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Core_Mistakes_That_Undermine_Feedback\"><\/span>Core Mistakes That Undermine Feedback<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_1_Being_Vague_or_Non-Specific\"><\/span>Mistake 1: Being Vague or Non-Specific<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;Great job on that project&#8221; might make someone smile, but it&#8217;s completely useless. They have no clue what they did right, so they can&#8217;t do it again next time.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;You need better communication skills&#8221; is just as bad. What does that even mean? Should they talk more in meetings? Write clearer emails? Stop using big words? They&#8217;re left guessing, which helps nobody.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">You need to get specific about what actually happened. The SBI method works because it tells people exactly what they did and why it mattered. No more guessing games.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_2_Forcing_the_Time_and_Place\"><\/span>Mistake 2: Forcing the Time and Place<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.businesscoachsydney.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Peter Cheel<\/a> coaches executives and he tells this story about his childhood. His mum would yell &#8220;Dinner&#8217;s ready!&#8221; while he was deep into building something with blocks. He needed a few minutes to finish what he was doing and switch gears.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">The same thing happens at work. When you march up to someone and say &#8220;We need to talk right now,&#8221; you&#8217;re ripping them out of whatever they were focused on. Their brain is still thinking about that spreadsheet or that phone call they just finished.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Cheel says to ask people when they can talk instead of demanding it immediately. &#8220;This creates the right space for conversation and makes sure they&#8217;re actually paying attention to what you&#8217;re saying.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_3_Jumping_Straight_Into_Criticism\"><\/span>Mistake 3: Jumping Straight Into Criticism<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.evangoodman.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Evan Goodman<\/a> works with business owners who are new to managing people. He sees this mistake constantly. Someone schedules a meeting without saying why, then immediately starts listing everything that went wrong.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;This battle approach shuts down any real conversation before it even starts,&#8221; Goodman explains. &#8220;It stops people from understanding what&#8217;s really going on and ruins any chance of actually connecting with them.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">When people feel ambushed, they get defensive immediately. When they&#8217;re busy defending themselves, they&#8217;re not listening to what you&#8217;re trying to tell them.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_4_Ignoring_Two-Way_Dialogue\"><\/span>Mistake 4: Ignoring Two-Way Dialogue<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Feedback should be a conversation, not a lecture where you download information into someone&#8217;s brain. Too many managers just talk at people without asking what they think or trying to understand what really happened.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Maybe there&#8217;s context you don&#8217;t know about. Maybe they were dealing with something difficult. Maybe they didn&#8217;t have the right tools or information. You&#8217;ll never find out if you don&#8217;t ask.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Cheel puts it perfectly: &#8220;Sometimes it&#8217;s better to understand their side first before you say anything. When you ask someone to explain what happened, you might completely change your mind about what feedback to give them.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_5_Blurring_Boundaries_Afterward\"><\/span>Mistake 5: Blurring Boundaries Afterward<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">You just had a serious conversation about someone&#8217;s performance. The feedback was important and they needed to think about it. Then you immediately start chatting about the weather or asking about their weekend plans.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Goodman sees this happen all the time. &#8220;Leaders get uncomfortable after giving feedback, so they try to make everything normal again by talking about random stuff. But this just confuses people about whether the feedback was actually important.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Your person walks away wondering if you were serious or just making conversation. Mixed signals kill the impact of everything you just said.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10600 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-3.jpg\" alt=\"mistakes leaders make when giving feedback\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-3.jpg 750w, https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-3-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Better_Ways_to_Communicate_Feedback\"><\/span>Better Ways to Communicate Feedback<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Make_Feedback_Specific_Using_SBI\"><\/span>Make Feedback Specific Using SBI<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">The SBI method turns useless feedback into something people can actually use:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li dir=\"ltr\" aria-level=\"1\">\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Situation &#8211; Tell them exactly when and where this happened<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li dir=\"ltr\" aria-level=\"1\">\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Behaviour &#8211; Describe what you saw them do, not what you think they were thinking<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li dir=\"ltr\" aria-level=\"1\">\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">Impact &#8211; Explain how their actions affected other people or the project<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Instead of saying &#8220;Your presentation was bad,&#8221; try something like this: &#8220;In Tuesday&#8217;s client meeting, when you kept looking at your notes instead of making eye contact, the client started checking their phone and seemed to lose interest.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Now they know exactly what to work on.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Set_Up_Meetings_Collaboratively\"><\/span>Set Up Meetings Collaboratively<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Stop demanding people drop everything to talk to you right now. Ask when they have time for a conversation instead.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;When would be a good time to chat about some feedback?&#8221; shows respect for what they&#8217;re working on. They&#8217;ll be way more open to <a href=\"https:\/\/jonathanmpham.com\/en\/interpersonal\/communication\/receiving-feedback\/\">hearing what you have to say<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Clarify_the_Purpose_Upfront\"><\/span>Clarify the Purpose Upfront<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Start every feedback conversation by explaining why you asked them to meet. Don&#8217;t make them guess or worry about whether they&#8217;re in trouble.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;We wanted to talk because we noticed some things that could help you be even better at client presentations.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">No surprises, no anxiety, just clear communication about what&#8217;s happening.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Encourage_Two-Way_Feedback\"><\/span>Encourage Two-Way Feedback<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Before you share what you noticed, ask them what they think. Check in with them first and actually listen to their answer.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;How do you feel about how that client meeting went?&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;What was challenging about that project for you?&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">You might learn something that completely changes what feedback you want to give them.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Keep_Boundaries_Clear\"><\/span>Keep Boundaries Clear<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">When the feedback conversation is over, end it properly. Don&#8217;t immediately jump into talking about something completely different.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Wrap up the important stuff, agree on what they&#8217;re going to work on, then let them go think about it. Casual chat right after serious feedback just makes everything confusing.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10599 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-2.jpg\" alt=\"mistakes leaders make when giving feedback\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-2.jpg 750w, https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-2-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Techniques_and_Conversation_Starters\"><\/span>Techniques and Conversation Starters<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Use_Feedforward\"><\/span>Use Feedforward<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Stop focusing on what went wrong and start talking about what they can do better next time.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;What would you try differently if you had to do that presentation again?&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">This makes people feel hopeful instead of defeated. They start thinking about solutions instead of dwelling on mistakes.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Start_with_Check-In_Questions\"><\/span>Start with Check-In Questions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Make people feel safe before you dive into feedback:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li dir=\"ltr\" aria-level=\"1\">\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">&#8220;How are things going with these types of projects?&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li dir=\"ltr\" aria-level=\"1\">\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">&#8220;What&#8217;s been the trickiest part of this role for you?&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<li dir=\"ltr\" aria-level=\"1\">\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\" role=\"presentation\">&#8220;How did you feel about that situation when it was happening?&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">These questions open up real conversation instead of one-way criticism.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"De-Escalate_and_Invite_Dialogue\"><\/span>De-Escalate and Invite Dialogue<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">When things get tense during feedback conversations, just pause and acknowledge it.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;This seems like a tough conversation for you. What&#8217;s going through your mind right now?&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">This shows you care about them as a person and keeps the conversation productive.<\/p>\r\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Follow-Up_and_Accountability\"><\/span>Follow-Up and Accountability<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Don&#8217;t just hope they&#8217;ll magically improve on their own. Schedule a time to check in with them again.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;Let&#8217;s talk again after your next client presentation to see how it goes.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">This shows you&#8217;re invested in helping them get better, not just pointing out problems.<\/p>\r\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sample_Feedback_Conversation_Outline\"><\/span>Sample Feedback Conversation Outline<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">Here&#8217;s how to structure these conversations:<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">1. 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End clearly: Don&#8217;t switch to random topics after the feedback.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">9. <a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/follow-up-behavior-change\/\">Follow up<\/a>: &#8220;Let&#8217;s check in again next week after your presentation.&#8221;<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10598 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-1.jpg\" alt=\"mistakes leaders make when giving feedback\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-1.jpg 750w, https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mistakes-leaders-make-when-giving-feedback-1-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion_Why_Doing_Feedback_Better_Builds_Trust_and_Performance\"><\/span>Conclusion: Why Doing Feedback Better Builds Trust and Performance<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">When you give feedback well, people trust you more and want to do better work. 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Your people become more confident, your team communicates better, and everyone starts focusing on getting better instead of just avoiding mistakes.<\/p>\r\n<p dir=\"ltr\">What&#8217;s the hardest part for you &#8211; setting up these conversations or actually having them once you&#8217;re in the room?<\/p>\r\n<p><em>Other resources you might be interested in:<\/em><\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/leadership-mistakes\/\">7 Leadership Mistakes to Avoid<\/a>: From Failure to Success<\/li>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/soliciting-feedback\/\">Soliciting Feedback<\/a>: Key to a Building a Better Workplace<\/li>\r\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/blog\/leadership\/leadership-feedback\/\">Leadership Feedback<\/a>: Changing for the Better<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<div class=\"message-box relative dark\" style=\"padding-top:50px;padding-bottom:50px;\"><div class=\"message-box-bg-image bg-fill fill\" ><\/div><div class=\"message-box-bg-overlay bg-fill fill\" style=\"background-color:rgb(240, 240, 240);\"><\/div><div class=\"container relative\"><div class=\"inner last-reset\"> <div class=\"row align-middle align-center\"  id=\"row-75292873\"> \n\t<div id=\"col-1903137645\" class=\"col medium-9 small-12 large-9\"  >\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"col-inner\"  >\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t \t<div id=\"text-4045611912\" class=\"text\">\n\t\t\r\n<p>Get the latest insights from ITD&#8217;s team of experts delivered to your inbox<\/p>\r\n\t\t\n<style>\n#text-4045611912 {\n  font-size: 1.2rem;\n  text-align: center;\n  color: rgb(0,0,0);\n}\n#text-4045611912 > * {\n  color: rgb(0,0,0);\n}\n<\/style>\n\t<\/div>\n\t \t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t \n\t<div id=\"col-589678258\" class=\"col medium-2 small-12 large-2\"  >\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"col-inner text-center\"  >\n\t\t\t\n\t\t\t <a href=\"https:\/\/itdworld.com\/subscribe-to-newsletter\/\" target=\"_self\" class=\"button secondary is-outline\"  style=\"border-radius:99px;\">\n    <span>SUBSCRIBE<\/span>\n  <\/a>\n \t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t <\/div> <\/div><\/div><\/div> \t<div id=\"gap-1112129057\" class=\"gap-element clearfix\" style=\"display:block; height:auto;\">\n\t\t\n<style>\n#gap-1112129057 {\n  padding-top: 30px;\n}\n<\/style>\n\t<\/div>\n\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Feedback conversations go sideways all the time, and when they do, people just stop caring about their work. 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